How To Bring Out The Best In Your Man

by Jun 3, 2015Sexuality

If you’re looking for ways to manipulate or control your man, this post is not for you.

If you’re looking for ways to undermine or overpower your man, this post is not for you.

But if you want your man to unleash his full masculine power, you’re in the right place.

 

I want you to know this one powerful and essential truth about your man – the single most powerful way to bring out the best in him:

 

Worship his cock.

 
Before I tell you how to do that, I want to tell you why:

Sexual energy is the most potent creative force that we have access to. It’s quite literally the energy that creates life. It’s also the energy that moves us, through our powerful desire, the force that energises and enlivens us.

It’s our fiery, inextinguishable creative essence.

But when you cut someone off from their sexual expression, you cut them off from all of this. You take away their vitality, their potency and their passion.

It’s why emasculating your man fucks him up so much.

 

And yet we emasculate our men in so many ways:

We mock them, shame them, reject them and belittle them.

We spend too much of our time trying to be strong and independent that we leave no room for them in our relationships.

And we spend a lot of time hating on the cock.

 

But don’t let a few bad cocks ruin it for everyone.

If you have yourself a good man, who is worthy of your love and attention, then his cock is worthy of your love and attention too.

His cock has incredible gifts for you, if you’re willing to receive them.

His cock is the archetypal masculine in its most potent form – hard, strong, directed and powerful. It’s your rock. Your pillar in the storm. Your true north – guiding you to places you could never go alone.

His cock wants to connect with and pleasure you – that’s what it was made for.

And if he knows how to use it with skill and mastery, he can open you to incredible depths of surrender, bliss and wild abandon. And love. Heart-shattering, earth-shaking, soul-wrenching love.

 
 

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Your man, and his cock, deserve to be worshipped.

 
And the more you do, the more your man has permission to be all of the masculine qualities you most desire from him:

To be strong, powerful and direct – like any good cock should be.

To be soft, playful and vulnerable – for his cock is these things too, and these are qualities in your man that deserve to be appreciated and celebrated.

For when you worship his cock, you worship his masculine essence. You fill him with confidence about the man that he is, and you give him permission to show up in the world more fully:

When his cock feels worthy, he feels worthy.

When his cock feels loved, he feels loved.

When he feels how open you are to receiving his cock, he feels how open you are to receiving him.

And that’s what so many men are yearning for:

To feel worthy. Seen. Accepted. Worshiped. To have their masculine gifts received and adored.

(And the beautiful thing is, when a man is in his true masculine power, we all benefit. Because the masculine wants to serve the feminine – to worship, adore, celebrate and uplift her. It’s one of the most incredible things about men – their deep desire to serve. To provide for those around them, and to support them in their flourishing.)

 
 

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So how do you worship his cock?

 
Tell him.

Tell him what it means to you. Tell him how much pleasure it gives you. Tell him how much you love its strength, its power, its love.

Make time for it. Hold it, kiss it, suck it, receive it. Prioritise time for you and his cock, each and every day – if only for a few moments.

But most of all – treat his cock with reverence and respect. Be impeccable with your word, and never shame his cock. If it stands to attention when you’re washing the dishes – even if its timing is off or you’re not in the mood – at least take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate it. If he’s tired or overworked and unable to get it up, be patient and compassionate.

Of course, this doesn’t mean you have to do anything you don’t want to – honouring yourself is just as important as honouring him. Just be gentle when you’re turning down his sexual advances.

Honour your man’s sexual essence, and you honour him as a man.

Make the effort to celebrate his sexuality as often as you can.

Worship his cock and bring out the best in your man.

See what a difference it makes in your man, and your relationship.

Want to worship his cock?

CLICK HERE to download our step-by-step exercise to try in the bedroom. You’ll also receive weekly-ish email updates on all things relationships and intimacy.

 
 

Hi, I’m Jodie – a life, love and sexual empowerment coach. I work with women and couples to help them create the lives, love and sex they’ve always wanted. More love, more passion, more pleasure and more fulfilment.
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