YES! You can re-kindle the passion, get rid of the anxiety and enjoy your sex life again…

No matter how long you’ve been together, or how stuck you feel now.

 
 

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Have you ever found yourself wondering….

“Why has the sex dried up? And where has all the fun and excitement gone?”

“Why are we always arguing about this? Is it meant to be so hard?”

“Is there something wrong with us? Is there something wrong with ME?”

It doesn’t have to be this way.

We’re here to help you get your love life back on track, so you can take the anxiety out of sex and reignite the passion in your relationship.

When you first got together, everything was great.

The sex flowed, you were always in the mood – you could hardly keep your hands off each other.

But then something changed.

After some time (maybe a few months, maybe even a few years, maybe after the baby came or the new promotion at work), the sex dried up. Date nights went from passionate, late night sex romps to falling asleep on the couch with a movie. Not that there’s anything wrong with couch snuggles, but you’ve started to feel more like housemates than lovers.

You told yourself it would get better.

But fast forward to now – and it hasn’t. You used to race off to the bedroom with excitement, now going to bed together makes you feel anxious.

You’re in one of three scenarios:

1. You don’t want sex as much as you used to, and you’re not sure why. You dread your partner making the moves and you’re always practicing an excuse-worthy ‘no’ in your head. But you also feel guilty about it, and you wish the whole sex problem would just go away.

2. You want to initiate, but you’re scared of being rejected… again. You want sex more often than your partner, but you feel powerless to do anything about it. Sometimes you feel ashamed of how much you want sex, other times, frustrated. You wish there was something you could do, but nothing seems to work.

3. You’re both not that interested in sex. It’s almost like you’re avoiding it – which feels comfortable and easy, sure. But sometimes you wonder: is this what it’s going to be like? You feel more like best friends than lovers, but you don’t know how to get that passion back.

‘Cause it’s more than ‘just sex’.

When you’re not connecting in the bedroom, you feel disconnected from each other. Distant.

You’re bickering about the little things

You can’t seem to communicate properly.

And as much as you’d hate to admit it, you’re feeling bored and uninspired by your relationship.

Sadly, most couples accept that this is how it’s ‘meant’ to be in a long-term relationship.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

You can have your cake AND eat it too.

Long-term relationships aren’t the problem. Marriage doesn’t kill sex. Being together for years doesn’t kill sex.

It’s your out-dated approach that kills sex.

You can have your deep, loving relationship AND enjoy a thriving passionate sex life. AT THE SAME TIME.

It doesn’t have to be one or the other.

But here’s the crux:

If you want a THRIVING sex life, you need an approach that works for the long haul (not just in the Honeymoon phase).

We worked this out the hard way.

We’d been together 18 months when it hit us.

It was gradual at first, but before we knew it, we were only having sex once or twice a week. Then only once or twice a month.

Then even less than that.

We went from tearing each other’s clothes off every chance we got to having hardly any sex at all.

One of us would try to initiate, only to feel rejected and shut down. The other felt pressured and guilty for not wanting sex more, but felt powerless to do anything about it.

We were having arguments about sex that left us feeling even more disconnected and alone. We blamed our ‘faulty’ libidos, our busy schedules and when we were at our wits end – we blamed each other.

We started to worry that maybe, there was something wrong with us.

But we didn’t want to give up. And we didn’t want to buy into the myth that ’that’s just what happens to relationships over time’. There had to be another way.

So we went to ‘work’ – deep diving into our relationship and devouring everything we could on how to create a thriving sex life that lasts.

But to be honest, we were disappointed with what we found. What passes as conventional ‘sex advice’ (eye roll) just didn’t seem to fit our situation. We didn’t want new sex positions or toys, and we didn’t think sexy lingerie was going to cut it either.

What we wanted was a real life approach on how to deal with our differences in desire. To understand why our initiating efforts weren’t working. To know why we weren’t really in the mood anymore.

So we started experimenting.

We took the best of what we’d discovered – from all the seminars and courses and hours and hours of reading, from science backed research to the art of eastern philosophy – and we mixed and matched until we finally found what worked.

With much trial and error (and plenty of fun breakthroughs) we managed to piece together our own approach to a long-lasting, thriving sex life. One that worked with our relationship, in a real, everyday context (’cause we don’t always have time for hour-long tantric rituals, and we’re not particularly interested in ’spicing things up’ with a new kink).

And oh-so-thankfully, we saw, real, long-term change. We were having sex more regularly. We weren’t fighting about it anymore. There was no more anxiety when it came time for bed.

We got our sex life back. And the best part? The sex was even BETTER than it had been before.

We were onto something. We started sharing our approach with our one-on-one coaching clients – and they started seeing incredible results too. We knew we had to get this magic out into the world.

And so we sat down and crafted a fool-proof system that shows you step-by-step how to create an intimate, connected and thriving sex life. Even after years of being together. Even through all the ups and downs that life will throw your way.

You’re in one of three scenarios:

1. You don’t want sex as much as you used to, and you’re not sure why. You dread your partner making the moves and you’re always practicing an excuse-worthy ‘no’ in your head. But you also feel guilty about it, and you wish the whole sex problem would just go away.

2. You want to initiate, but you’re scared of being rejected… again. You want sex more often than your partner, but you feel powerless to do anything about it. Sometimes you feel ashamed of how much you want sex, other times, frustrated. You wish there was something you could do, but nothing seems to work.

3. You’re both not that interested in sex. It’s almost like you’re avoiding it – which feels comfortable and easy, sure. But sometimes you wonder: is this what it’s going to be like? You feel more like best friends than lovers, but you don’t know how to get that passion back.

‘Cause it’s more than ‘just sex’.

When you’re not connecting in the bedroom, you feel disconnected from each other. Distant.

You’re bickering about the little things

You can’t seem to communicate properly.

And as much as you’d hate to admit it, you’re feeling bored and uninspired by your relationship.

Sadly, most couples accept that this is how it’s ‘meant’ to be in a long-term relationship.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

You can have your cake AND eat it too.

Long-term relationships aren’t the problem. Marriage doesn’t kill sex. Being together for years doesn’t kill sex.

It’s your out-dated approach that kills sex.

You can have your deep, loving relationship AND enjoy a thriving passionate sex life. AT THE SAME TIME.

It doesn’t have to be one or the other.

But here’s the crux:

If you want a THRIVING sex life, you need an approach that works for the long haul (not just in the Honeymoon phase).

We worked this out the hard way.

We’d been together 18 months when it hit us.

It was gradual at first, but before we knew it, we were only having sex once or twice a week. Then only once or twice a month.

Then even less than that.

We went from tearing each other’s clothes off every chance we got to having hardly any sex at all.

One of us would try to initiate, only to feel rejected and shut down. The other felt pressured and guilty for not wanting sex more, but felt powerless to do anything about it.

We were having arguments about sex that left us feeling even more disconnected and alone. We blamed our ‘faulty’ libidos, our busy schedules and when we were at our wits end – we blamed each other.

We started to worry that maybe, there was something wrong with us.

But we didn’t want to give up. And we didn’t want to buy into the myth that ’that’s just what happens to relationships over time’. There had to be another way.

So we went to ‘work’ – deep diving into our relationship and devouring everything we could on how to create a thriving sex life that lasts.

But to be honest, we were disappointed with what we found. What passes as conventional ‘sex advice’ (eye roll) just didn’t seem to fit our situation. We didn’t want new sex positions or toys, and we didn’t think sexy lingerie was going to cut it either.

What we wanted was a real life approach on how to deal with our differences in desire. To understand why our initiating efforts weren’t working. To know why we weren’t really in the mood anymore.

So we started experimenting.

We took the best of what we’d discovered – from all the seminars and courses and hours and hours of reading, from science backed research to the art of eastern philosophy – and we mixed and matched until we finally found what worked.

With much trial and error (and plenty of fun breakthroughs) we managed to piece together our own approach to a long-lasting, thriving sex life. One that worked with our relationship, in a real, everyday context (’cause we don’t always have time for hour-long tantric rituals, and we’re not particularly interested in ’spicing things up’ with a new kink).

And oh-so-thankfully, we saw, real, long-term change. We were having sex more regularly. We weren’t fighting about it anymore. There was no more anxiety when it came time for bed.

We got our sex life back. And the best part? The sex was even BETTER than it had been before.

We were onto something. We started sharing our approach with our one-on-one coaching clients – and they started seeing incredible results too. We knew we had to get this magic out into the world.

And so we sat down and crafted a fool-proof system that shows you step-by-step how to create an intimate, connected and thriving sex life. Even after years of being together. Even through all the ups and downs that life will throw your way.

Introducing the

Reignite Your Love Life

Course

The Couple’s Complete, Step-By-Step Approach To Initiating Sex & Re-Kindling Desire In a Long Term Relationship

Reignite Your Love Life is an online course that takes the anxiety out of sex, so you can feel reconnected and enjoy your sex life again. It’s designed for couples, by a couple, and it’s all available in the privacy of your own home.

 

All of the course materials, including super-practical, step-by-step exercises are immediately available within our online member’s area.
 
Also included:

Streaming videos

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Worksheets

Email support

Life-time Access

Have you ever wanted a peak into someone else’s sex life – just to see how THEY make it work?

 
How much sex are other couples having? Do they face the same problems as you? What’s going on behind closed doors? All the things we’re curious about – but are too polite to ask.

Well now you can stop wondering.

We’re peeling back the curtain on our relationship to share our most intimate stories, insights, challenges and hard-won solutions. We don’t just share the science of sex and relating in this course – we share proven, life tested approaches from our very own relationship. It’s part of what makes this course so unique and so powerful. 100% real, authentic and relatable.

Here’s Exactly What You’ll Learn In Each Module:

MODULE 1

CREATE THE FOUNDATIONS FOR A THRIVING SEX LIFE

To enjoy a deeply fulfilling and thriving sex life, you need to have the right approach and mindsets towards sex in your relationship. In this module you’ll:

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Learn empowering approaches to help you banish the discomfort and awkwardness around sex, so you can feel good about your sex life again.

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Uncover the hidden personal blocks that are sabotaging your sex life, so you feel comfortable with your body and confident asking for what you want

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Leverage the power of your relationship’s “Sex Agreements” (which we’ll help you create) and enjoy a more regular, satisfying sex life

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Discover the hidden meaning of sex in your relationship for more connection and intimacy that keeps you coming back for more

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Get simple, easy to use prompts that gets you talking about intimacy without feeling awkward or unsure of what to say

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Deepen your understanding of each other’s sexuality and take your relationship to a more intimate, connected level

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Take the pressure and performance anxiety out of your sexual play with our unique approach to sexual connection

MODULE 2

HOW TO IGNITE YOUR DESIRE (AND YOUR PARTNER’S) AND TAKE YOUR SEX LIFE INTO YOUR OWN HANDS

To enjoy a deeply fulfilling and thriving sex life, you need to have the right approach and mindsets towards sex in your relationship. In this module you’ll:

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Uncover the myths about libido and desire that are sabotaging your sex life and hurting your relationship (so you can bust on through them)

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Get crystal clear clarity on exactly how to ignite your desire for sex - and how to do the same for your partner

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Discover how to remove the blocks to your desire (and your partner’s), so you can both increase your interest in sex and maximise your pleasure

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Get the confidence to talk about what you want (and don’t want) in the bedroom, and how to create the perfect setting for mind blowing sex for both of you

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Discover a simple and effective way to reconnect with each other without even taking your clothes off

MODULE 3

HOW TO MANAGE DIFFERENCES IN DESIRE AND END THE ARGUMENTS ABOUT SEX

We all face differences in desire – but not knowing how to deal with it is one of the most damaging problems couples in long term relationships face. In this module you’ll:

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Understand the relationship dynamic that every couple HAS to master, but that no one’s talking about

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Learn how to stop stress from wreaking havoc in your sex life, and get a stress management approach that actually works

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Leverage the secret to feeling deeply loved and appreciated and create life-long affection in your relationship

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Understand the desire-killing mistake that almost every couple falls into and how to quickly fix it

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Get a step-by-step approach to healing the toxic resentments destroying your sex life, so you can end the arguments and get back to connection

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Get the techniques and confidence to heat things up in your relationship and escape the relationship ‘friend-zone’

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Our favourite, go-to exercises that we use in our own relationship to heat things up in the bedroom and enjoy ecstatic, pleasure-rich sex

MODULE 4

THE FAIL-PROOF APPROACH TO INITIATING SEX IN A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP

In order to enjoy a regular, thriving sex life, you need to know how to get things started. In this module you’ll:

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Discover why you’re initiating attempts aren’t working, and create a powerful new approach that will radically increase your success and save you from unnecessary rejection

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Get your very own, personalised initiating blueprint for your relationship so you can start initiating sex and getting yourselves in the mood with confidence and ease

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Learn how to rekindle the sex life from your honeymoon phase so that sex happens effortlessly and consistently

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Use our favourite method for making sure sex happens (and it takes all the pain out of initiating)

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Discover the step-by step process to follow when you want to want sex, and take the awkwardness out of getting started

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Get the easy-to-follow approach to saying ‘no’ that helps take the anxiety out of sex and keeps you connected even when you’re not in the mood

This course is perfect for you if:

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You want to be having more sex

You’d love to connect with your partner more regularly but you’re tired of feeling rejected all the time, or you just don’t know how to get things started. This course shows you exactly how to initiate sex with ease, and enjoy a more regular sex life.

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You're feeling pressured or guilty about sex

You know your partner wants to be having more sex, but you just can’t meet them there. You’re worried you should want sex more, but you’re just not in the mood most of the time. This course helps you re-kindle your desire and take the anxiety out of sex.

You're feeling distant and disconnected from your partner

You miss that feeling of closeness and passion that your sex life once gave you. You want to feel deeply connected to your partner, but you don’t know how to make it happen. This course shows you how, and helps you to feel like lovers again, instead of just BFFs or housemates.

You want something more out of your sex life

Whether you’re feeling uninspired or you want to be having more sex, this course helps you to re-kindle your sex life and find deeper satisfaction.

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You're arguing about sex or you just don't feel comfortable talking about it

When you don’t have the skills and don’t know what to talk about, sex is one of those topics that can be really hard to talk about. This course completely turns that around, so you can confidently and openly talk about sex together.

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Choose the Reignite Your Love Life Plan That’s Right For You

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One Payment of

$97

AUD

— MOST FLEXIBLE —

3 x Monthly Payments

$35

AUD

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ENROL NOW AND YOU’LL GET THIS BONUS TRAINING – FREE

Bonus Course

CONFLICT TO CONNECTION:

The couple’s guide to having difficult conversations that will leave you feeling closer than before

We all the know the importance of good communication in a relationship – and yet no one talks about EXACTLY how to do it! This power-packed mini-course gives you the exact framework for having the difficult conversations, without all the arguments, hurt or resentment. You’ll get the confidence and skills to have even the most challenging talks with your partner, and enjoy a new level of connection and understanding between you.

In this training, you’ll:

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Get the easy-to-follow approach to saying ‘no’ that helps take the anxiety out of sex and keeps you connected even when you’re not in the mood

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Get a copy of our ‘Fighting Right Agreements’ ‘ the must-follow do’s and don’ts when you’re facing conflict to protect your relationship from potentially fatal damage

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Learn how to get your point across in a challenging conversation so that you’ll be heard and understood

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Get crystal clear examples and easy-to-use prompts to upgrade your communication skills and argument-proof your relationship


(Value $49)
Included with Reignite Your Love Life!

HERE’S PROOF THAT WHAT WE TEACH WORKS

We’ve been helping couples re-ignite their love life for years. From de-facto couples who’ve been together 18 months, to marriages of 25+ years, we’ve put these techniques to the test.

Here’s just a handful of results from our clients and followers*.

*names have been changed to protect privacy, ’cause yeah, we respect that this stuff is personal.

After trying marriage counselling but getting nowhere, they completely transformed their sex life in only a few months

“Before coaching with Jodie and Reece we were lost. We loved each other more than anything and yet we didn’t know how to reconnect our spark and passion. Being intimate with each other was just something that didn’t happen, work and life had taken over. We had tried marriage counsellors before but they always focused on communication as the main key, which we actually did pretty well (most areas). Sex was the taboo topic that they never brought up and we didn’t feel comfortable to bring up. 3 months later we are ecstatic at how far we’ve come. Jodie and Reece pushed our comfort zones and our mind sets to help us reconnect.

Our communication and sex life has transformed and we can’t thank Jodie and Reece enough. Investing in ourselves and our marriage was the best thing we ever did.”

MR J. & MRS B. HARRIS

Married 12 years
Brisbane, Australia

He was feeling lost, but now they’re enjoying an amazing sexual connection again.

“Thank you Jodie & Reece for all the work you have shared so far. I was feeling lost in my relationship a year ago until my friend suggested your blog. This helped our relationship grow by rediscovering that amazing sexual connection.”

JASON PHILLIPS

Brisbane, Australia

After 26 years of marriage, he’s learning how to fire her up and she’s finally enjoying their sex life again!

“My husband and I of 23 years marriage were at a very low point in our sexual relationship. I felt bored, uninspired and disengaged and he felt frustrated and unloved. After working with Jodie, the end results for my husband and I are:

– A better understanding of our different desire levels
– We’re developing better communication skills in the bedroom to let one another know whats working and whats not.
– We’re experimenting more and finding ways to make our sexual relationship more rewarding.
– He’s learning how to fire me up so I really want him.
– I’m making myself more available to him.
– I don’t feel broken anymore.

I highly recommend doing this work if you want to feel good about your sexuality and your sexual relationship with your partner.

This may well have saved my marriage.

I think the service you provide is amazing and encourage anyone who is feeling at a low point in his or her sexuality to get on board and do the work. You will not regret it.”

AMY RICHARDS

Event Co-ordinator
QLD, Australia

After feeling scared to talk about sex, they’re now enjoying more openness in their relationship.

Reece & Jodie – you’ve turned a difficult conversation into something that my husband and I can now openly discuss without fear of judgement or ridicule… Thanks for bringing SEX OUT INTO THE OPEN, and for making these topics current and cool discussions!

‘HAPPY TO BE TALKING – AND MORE ;)’

San Antonio, TX, USA

YOU’RE PROTECTED WITH OUR 100% RISK-FREE MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

Re-Ignite Your Love Life comes with a 100% Money Back Guarantee. We’re so sure that this course will improve your relationship and your sex life that we’re willing to back it with our 30 Day Money Back Guarantee.

If for some reason you’re not satisfied with what we’ve created for you, simply send us an email within the first 30 days and we’ll refund you.

That’s how sure we are that this course works.

‘Nuff said.

GET STARTED NOW

Choose the Re-Ignite Your Love Life Plan That’s Right For You

— BEST VALUE —

One Payment of

$97

AUD

— MOST FLEXIBLE —

3 x Monthly Payments

$35

AUD

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Got Questions? We Got Answers.

What exactly does your program offer?
We detail the entire course curriculum here. Scroll to the section titled “Here’s exactly what you’ll learn in each module.” Below that, you’ll see details for all 4 modules of the program. This is where you can check out exactly what topics are covered in this program.
Do you offer refunds?
Yes, we do! We offer a 100% Money Back Guarantee. Our hope is that you’re beyond satisfied with the course, but we also know that sometimes, purchases just aren’t the right fit. We want you to feel 100% safe to give this program a try – that’s why we offer a 30 day Money Back Guarantee.
What if my partner doesn't want to participate? Will this still work for me?
The best way to see results is to do this course as a couple. Having said that, the personal insights and deep knowledge that you’ll gain from this course will make a huge difference in how you approach your sex life and your relationship. Just because your partner isn’t willing to participate doesn’t mean you can’t! We’ve also noticed in our coaching work that as one partner starts to learn and make change, the other partner becomes more open to learning and making change as well. Doing this course yourself may well be what it takes to open your partner to new possibilities.
I'm in a same-sex relationship - will this work for me?
Absolutely! The knowledge in this course is useful for anyone in an intimate relationship, whatever your sexual orientation. Although we share a lot of examples from our own relationship, we’ve tried to keep our definitions of ‘sex’ and the exercises as inclusive as possible.
I've experienced sexual assault in the past - will this course help me heal that?
This course is not designed to be a replacement for counselling or therapy. If you feel that you would benefit from seeing a counsellor, please seek out a qualified professional. This course will however help you to talk more openly about sex, your desires, your likes and dislikes, and how your partner can help support you to have a more satisfying, pleasurable sex life.
I'm single - will this course be useful to me?
This course is designed for couples who are looking to create change in their sex life. Having said that, the personal insights and deep knowledge that you’ll gain from this course will make a huge difference in how you approach any future relationships and your sex life in general. It may also help you to understand previous relationships you have been in. If that is something that’s important to you, you are most welcome to join us in this course. You will also have lifetime access to the program, so you can revisit it at a later time if you like.
Do myself and my partner both have to buy the course?
No, please only purchase once an take the course together.
How long do we have to complete the course?
As long as you like! You have lifetime access to the course, so you can start whenever you like, and go at the pace that best suits you. We recommend taking the course over 4 weeks to allow yourself enough time for each module and its exercises, but you can take more or less time as suits you.
I'm concerned about privacy - will we be identified in any way?
We respect your privacy at all times. There is no public forum or Facebook group for this very reason. This is one of the great benefits of this online course format – you can complete this entire program from the privacy of your own home. You will not be identified at any time during this course. To complete payment you will need to use your correct details, but you are free to create aliases for your course log-in details if you wish. You can read our privacy policy here for more information.
What if I need support?
Just reach out! We’re here to help if you run into tech problems, have a question about the program or just want to say hello. You can reach us by email at hello@practicalintimacy.com
When do we get access to the material?
As soon as you purchase the course! All 4 modules and the bonus course are available immediately in the private online member’s area. No need to wait, you can get started right away.

Didn’t find the answer you’re looking for? Email us at hello@practicalintimacy anytime and we’ll get back to you as soon as possible.

Let’s Get You Reconnected, Enjoying Each Other & Loving Your Sex Life Again

‘Because you deserve a relationship that lights you up. You deserve to feel loved, and connected and nourished by your sex life.

Not worried about the future and avoiding bed time like the plague.

You just need a new approach. An approach that shows you how to keep desire alive in a long term relationship.

An approach that takes the anxiety out of initiating sex.

An approach that shows you how your body really works, so you can take your arousal into your own hands and get yourselves in the mood, whenever you want. No guilt. No pressure.

And we’d be honoured to show you how.

You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

Re-Ignite Your Love Life comes with a 100% Satisfaction Guarantee. Apply what you learn with us and you’ll see incredible change in your relationship.

About Us

Hi! We’re Reece and Jodie. We’re sexuality and intimacy coaches, relationship educators and creators of Practical Intimacy. We help couples create life-long passion and deeply fulfilling intimacy – even when it feels like the fire’s been lost. We’re also a couple living the daily reality of relationship – and we share stories and insights straight from the front lines of our own relationship.

We’re all about creating refreshingly honest, practical and authentic work. We love to talk about the more challenging topics – things like porn, depression in relationships and practical ways to have a better sex life. We work with men, women and couples around the world, and we’ve also been featured by The Huffington Post, Mind Body Green, Raw Attraction, Omoonie and Sivana East. We avid travellers, and Netflix n’ chill enthusiasts.

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